Stressed at work- a project due date got moved from end of September to September 4. With a week to,complete it. Done now, or at least that part but brain fried.
Stressed at home. J is 19 and has attitude to match. I lack the patience on this. He seems to be angry all the time. No dude, being asked to empty and fill the dishwasher once a day is not onerous, especially when you create half of the dirty dishes. Being required to put your shoes on the shoe rack is not a ridiculous requirement.
Health stress. Booked in for a fibroid removal next week. It’s not cheap. I am not sure of the recovery time, but I am stressed if I am looking forward to the enforced bed rest.
Money. Not too terrible, but the op will not help. Plus there are a couple of exhibitions in Melbourne G and I want to see. They end in November. A weekend there, flights and hotel is probably at least $1500. That’s about the same cost of moving j’s stuff up from tassie. I am pretty much nope on the moving of stuff ( my life experience of having to move and live somewhere with just a suitcase more than once makes me less sympathetic to someone who didn’t plan very well). But how can I justify spending that much on a weekend away then! And also, don’t really want to bring J along. I am still not very happy about his behaviour when we went to Rocky. I am not inclined to provide an all expenses paid trip somewhere nice to someone who acts like I am a problem in their life and that I can be treated rudely.