So, we are back from our very busy trip, and work was just busy when i got back. So i feel as if i am always trying to catch up.
There are a lot of big changes rolling through my industry at 1 July this year and it feels like everyone stuck their heads in the sand about them…
And some big birthdays in the extended families this year. My fortieth means a big birthday for my day as well, just add thirty years to my age. That is next weekend. The weekend before this one was Greg’s nephew’s 21st- so we went to rocky for it. J will turn 21 later this year, so we are making plans around that.
It’s been really busy, but i can’t remember anything!
So here’s a picture of my dark mark at a trivia night- i was bellatrix.
Partway through the arduous process of getting to Europe. We flew from brisbane to Seoul today, are staying overnight at a nice hotel (courtesy of KoreanAir) and will be flying to Paris tomorrow.
Now i remember why i have not been enthused about travel to places far away- the endless time in a flying tin can.
Korean air has been pretty decent, i am looking forward to a flying visit to Seoul on our way home.
Some coral atolls off the coast of queensland
I survived my birthday. Less traumatic than expected, not as uneventful as expected. Some birthday cake and celebratory drinks.
Not pictured- terrible cake, small children vomiting and open mic night at the bar ( none of which was terrible, but none planned).
My office looks out onto a small city park, a busy road and an Anglican cathedral. We are on the second floor (third to some- we have ground, first floor and then second floor), so close to the ground. My little office enjoy observing life outside. We see a lot of weddings and a lot of tow trucks.
A few of the weddings are big traditional affairs, with lots of guests. They aren’t the interesting ones. The cathedral is popular with overseas couples who use a wedding service. Getting married overseas, using traditional western wedding trappings was very popular in Japan when I lived there. It’s cheaper than the big Japanese wedding for many. The customers of this wedding company are all Asian, so we are guessing that is what is happening. This sort of service is very popular in Queensland, as it is already a good travel destination from east Asia. We can recognise the company- it’s always the same planner, the same limo driver (and limo), the same sequence. They come over to the park to take pictures and drink bubbles. We get to look at the dresses, the groom’s suit (is it white? Is it grey? Is it shiny), the family (sometimes there are friends and family) and the general behaviour of the groom. The wedding party has to jaywalk across a four lane road- some grooms are more solicitous of their wife than others, sometimes the couples hold hands but not often. It’s always a happy moment when we get to observe a wedding!
So, I have not been posting.
No really good reason, just life is busy and I am stressed. I write the posts in my head, they just never make it further.
Tomorrow is my 40th birthday. It isn’t an easy one. I remember back when I turned 25, a co-worker (who was in her 30’s) stated that she had a mental breakdown at that age. This was the day before my 25th birthday. She had struggled with her expectations of what her life would be like at that age and the reality. That was not an issue for my 25th or 30th. But apparently it is this time. I have been struggling with this for a few months,off and on. Hopefully it gets easier after the big day.
I don’t have huge celebrations planned- a lunch tomorrow with some co-workers (and my boss told me that I didn’t need to rush back afterwards- which would be great, but I have stuff to doooo) then dinner out with my husband (venue yet to be determined). A big family dinner on Saturday- my siblings are coming to town for that.
I am going try to write more, but we shall see.
Hmm, maybe I should try and post once in the month. I don’t like this month and it doesn’t like me.
Things I did:
Went for a second opinion on the whole infertility thing. Plus side- nothing else obvious we should/could do. Bad- same thing, there is no magic bullet
We went to Melbourne and saw Bruce Springsteen
I thought some embroidery
I did some watercolour- the watercolour class was late January and then we had a watercolour night with QCWA in February
I saw a large spider in a car park
This most recent weekend we went to the beach
I also had a busy work month, there is an industry wide change that came into force this year. The deadline for reporting the information was today, and a lot of decisions had to be made this month. It is a complex change and I have spent too much time explaining it.
Not sure I am looking forward to march- I have a big birthday coming up.
So I went to a weekend art class about painting watercolours. It was interesting. I was definitely outclassed. A couple of the other students were school art teachers, so had art skills. My drawing skills are not great. It was fun to play around with paint and colour and practice. But it was challenging.
I was uncomfortable at points because I did struggle with the process. I wasn’t confident in my skills, so it was not always obvious what to do. The pieces of work that the teacher liked were not necessarily the ones I liked. Sometimes it is important to try to do things that are outside my comfort zone. Making art-painting, drawing, sculpting all require you to look at the world around you. Sometimes it is just about looking at the small details, sometimes it is about looking at the bigger picture.
I have also been making phone calls that make me uncomfortable, trying to get appointments.
Because I was at the class all weekend I did not march, although there was a march in my town. My feed has been full of the marches though- I wish I had been able to participate.